THE BIG SECRET OF DEALING WITH PEOPLE

                      Tips to handling people 

                 the big secret of dealing with people 

Make people like you instantly. tip to handling people on the coming para. There is only one way under high heaven to get anybody to do anything. did you ever stop to think of that? yes, just one way. And that is by making the other person want to do it.

Remember, there is no other way. of course, you can make someone want to give you his watch by sticking a revolver in his rids. You can make your friends give you mutual support. until your back is turned-- by threatening (dhamakee) to I'm with you not. you can make your

child do what you want it to do by a threat. But these crude methods have sharply (very fast) undesirable repercussions (resulted).

The only way I can get you to do anything is by giving you what you want.

What do you want? (comment at below)

What do you want? not many things, but the few that you do wish , you crave(Have a strong desire) with insistence that will not be denied. some of the things most of people want include:

1. Food.

                                 Food

2. Sleep.

                                   Sleep

3. Good body.

                               Good body 

4. sexual gratification (santushti).

                           Sexual gratification

5. A feeling of importance.

                         A feeling of important

6. Money.

                                Money

Almost all these wants are usually gratified--all except one. but there is one longing--almost as deep, almost as imperious, as the desire for food or sleep--which is the seldom (kabhee kabhee) gratified. It is what freud calls " the desire to be great ". It is what dewey (Beloved) calls the "desire to be important." Therefore, to become genuinely interested in others, you must find something they do that makes you curious to know more about, even if that’s a step or two around the corner.

This does not have to be anything they do, and you definitely do not have to be interested in the same things they are, but if you can find some connection between something that inspires you and that they are interested in, then you have something you can become genuinely interested about.

For example: You may not be interested in fishing although the person sitting across from you would die for it, but you might be interested in their passion for it.

Or you might meet someone who is very into Politics, and while you do not follow politics much at all, you are curious about beliefs and can therefore meet somewhere in the middle.

                            Conclusion

1. Don't criticize, condemn, or complain.

2. Become genuinely interested in other people.

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If you want it to be successful, you have to read your prospects’ minds.

Essentially, you need to know your friends really well.

Once you know them, you’ll determine what words, images, and reasoning resonate most with them.

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